So sometimes you know how you do something and it seems like a good idea at the time, but then you think about it and realize that what you did could be misinterpreted as kinda douchey due to the awesomeness that is internet communication? Yeah. Me too.
And you know there’s nothing else to do because you already did what you did and doing more will probably just create a spaghetti bowl of insanity, so you shut up* like you should have done in the first place and deal with your anxiety.
*Except for whining to your husband about you not being sure what you did and then sending your best friend an email about how anxious you are now. But you shut up to the original person! Well done you.
This sounds terrible. And like a lot of anxiety. I’m sure if whoever you were talking to knows you at all they will take it in the spirit you meant it because you are a GREAT person and they will know that and then know not to take what you said as douchey.
Love to you
(It’s never as bad as you think;) )